I call him my “Handsome Client.”
He’s charming, kind, funny—and honestly, looks like he stepped out of a movie. A total catch.
But every time he books a tarot session, he asks the same thing:
“Why can’t I meet someone special? Why isn’t anyone interested in dating me?”
Sounds strange, right? You’d think someone like him would have no trouble finding love. But the truth is—this is very common. Even the most attractive, kind-hearted people struggle to find the right match.
If this sounds like your story, too, let me tell you something my father used to say:
“There is a lid for every pot.”
In simple words—your person is out there.
Sometimes it just takes time.
Other times, there might be a few reasons why love isn’t flowing your way. As a tarot reader with nearly 30 years of experience, here are some things I’ve seen again and again:
- You’re only using dating apps.
Apps are fine, but if you’re always swiping and not meeting people in real life, your chances shrink. Try meeting people through friends, events, or hobbies.
- You’re still stuck on your ex.
If your heart is still with someone from the past, it’s hard for new love to enter. Close that chapter.
- You don’t know what you want.
Do you want a relationship or just fun? Be honest with yourself so the universe (and potential partners) gets a clear signal.
- Your “must-have” list is too long.
Having preferences is okay. But don’t be so strict that you reject good people who don’t meet small criteria.
- You’re bringing too much heaviness on dates.
Everyone has problems, but don’t unload them on a first date. Keep it light, fun, and respectful.
- You’re too serious.
One client I had started acting like she was in a romantic comedy. She laughed more, had fun—even bad dates became funny stories. And guess what? She met someone amazing.
- You don’t love yourself.
This is the biggest one. If you don’t feel worthy or happy within, it shows. But when you accept and love yourself fully, people feel that—and the right ones are drawn to it.
So if you’re wondering, “Why am I still single?” maybe the answer is not about them, but about you. Not in a bad way—just in a way that puts you back in control.
Start with self-love.
Get clear on what you want.
And be open to people who may not come in the “package” you expected.
Trust me, love finds you when you’re truly ready to receive it.
Blessings,
Shalini
Your Tarot & Soul Guide